I started this post with the intention of writing about my type… the type of guy I’m sexually attracted to. The more I thought about it, the more I realized there was a direct correlation to the people I’m friends with and the people I want to have sex with. Basically I’m sexually attracted to most of my friends. (and hopefully vise versa) This shouldn’t come as a big surprise because gay men posses the unique ability to have casual sex without harming a friendship. In some cases, sex between friends can help a friendship. A good friend is someone who’ll be there for you in good time and in bad or when you simply need a warm mouth. 🙂
But I’m curious, is this common amongst other gay men? Or is it unique to the bear community? (or maybe I’m just over sexed) I have the impression that non-bears are judgmental and cold toward each other. Kind of like a hairless cat on her period. I’m probably wrong, but I can’t think of anyone to ask. At any rate… I’ve collected a group of friends with whom I’d happily get naked with (again).
*A side not on the pictures: Each person pictured makes me horny. As you can see I tried to find a picture of me with the person. However I apologize because not all the photos are the best shots. (Sorry Chris, but this is the only picture I could find of us together) It also made me realize that I don’t have pictures with some of my close friends. For example there definitely needs to be a pic of me and Dan. But the only shot I could find of us together is from 5 years ago. (and for Dan 30lbs ago) Also, Joe Hooch and I have no pictures together at all. What’s up with that? Ad that to the To Do list: Get updated pictures with hot friends. Clothing Optional.